Lord, help me to live
appropriately
That the world may
know I’m your daughter.
May I learn to be
humble, gentle, and patient,
Reflecting the image
of my Father.
Help me bear with my
brothers and sisters
Even when we do not
agree.
Help us to hold each
other up
So, your love is what
others see.
“As a prisoner of the Lord, then,
I urge you to live a life worthy
of the calling you
have received.
Be completely humble and gentle;
be patient, bearing with one another in love.”
Ephesians 4:1-2 (NIV)
axiōs516 – appropriately:
- as becometh, after a godly sort, worthily (-thy).
anĕchŏmai430 – to hold
oneself up against, i.e. (fig.) put up with: - bear with, endure, forbear,
suffer.
agapē26 – love, i.e.
affection or benevolence; spec. (plur.) a love-feast: - (feast of) charity
([-ably]), dear, love.
“How long
must I put up with Icky? She follows me everywhere and wants to dress like
‘twinsies’ all the time. Baby sisters are a pain.”
I’m sure
that’s how my sister felt about me when I was about five, and she was nearly
eleven. I was a pest and a half. There was even more of an age difference
between my older sister and me. I was still in elementary school when she was
dating the man who would ultimately become her husband. I would find excuses to
walk through the living room and spy on them when he came over. And to top it
off, I was a “gifted” child who breezed through school and never had to study.
I was a very annoying little sister. However, both sisters put up with me and
endured my childish pranks. They loved me because I was a part of their family.
The three of us are still very close.
We are
called to be members of God’s family. Part of living a life worthy of that
awesome privilege is bearing with many brothers and sisters who have the
potential to drive us nuts. We are to be humble, thinking of others more than
ourselves. I’m reminded a portion of the prayer of St. Francis of Assisi,
“Lord, grant that I might seek not so much to be consoled, as to console; to be
understood, as to understand, not so much to be loved, as to love another.”
Being one of God’s children is first of all about loving God and secondly about
loving others (Mark 12:28-31). We are to hold our fellow believers dear even
when we do not agree with them or they have habits that really bother us. If we
ask God to help us obey the command he has given us to love each other, he will
help us overlook our differences.
Father, help me to be humble,
gentle, patient, and kind with my brothers and sisters in Christ. Help me to
put up with those who seem difficult to me. Help me to stand shoulder to
shoulder with other believers that we may hold each other up. Lord, thank you
for loving me even when I am the most unlovable. Help me to pass on to others
the love I have been given.